He Had Me

Don't bring up the topic of relationship when you're very horny.

"Oh, fuck. Do you have a boyfriend?" We were in the heat of the moment, when he asked that. I just told him I was single. "I should've met you earlier in my life," he added.

Don't praise him too much just because he looks gorgeous in the dark.

"You're so gorgeous. I love your skin - so smooth and fair. I like your face - good-looking." I just said he should see me in the lounge area where there's bright enough light to scrutinize my apearance.

Don't make promises or offers when you're high with sex.

"I really like you. You wanna have dinner with me later and catch a midnight show (movie)? My treat." I said nothing. But it got me expecting.

Don't easily fall for a guy, when he says he's starting to fall for you.

"Everytime you touch me, you make me hard. I think I'm gonna fall for you." Sure enough, I took the bait.

Do believe that most of the time, what happens in the room, stays in the room.

"Let's take a shower, and meet at the smoking area." I thought he was a nice catch. 5'11, stocky-muscular, really cute, conversational, passionate in sex, and well-endowed.

Everything changed when we were at the smoking area. He lit up a cigar and opened the conversation with how he likes that Japanese national with a ripped body and excellent built.

"He looks like a good top. Chase him." I told this guy that my initial intention was to hit it off with a couple of guys in the baths for the night. He wanted just me. But I retracted by saying I could change my mind for him.

"I'm really tired now. I'm going home in a few minutes, before my friends catch me here. I left my phone at home and they thought I wasn't going out. They will be leaving messages blah blah blah". First red flag.

"I saw more good tops around; you should go after them while the night's still young." I got his message. I just said, "Yeah, I should be going. Nice to meet you." I left the place, because he made my night anyway.

I wanted to tell him how disappointed I was. But I might as well keep it to myself, rather than look silly confronting him. As of the time of this writing, I'm still left wondering what had gone wrong, how he became different after the sex. What happened to all the things he said back in that room?

I had my gameplan when I entered the baths. But when I met a seemingly nice guy and changed the rules to follow his rules, it was a risky game. Maybe because I started to like him, and that I thought there was a possibility that things could go further.

Another lesson learned.